"Arjen and I have exchanged possibly 10,000 words over emails across a span of a few decades. Almost every sentence was playfully hurtful, deprecating, and funny. (Including a few of his replies). We planned to release a book, knowing that we would be misunderstood. Thankfully, we did not.
While we were always testing each other’s wit, the true test was when we decided to play on each other’s records. This is where I believe we both rose to the challenge.
Arjen has an amazing ability to compose amazing parts and play them amazingly. I use this word a lot because it is his favorite word and I can always picture talking to him and when he likes something he would slow the speed of his spoken speech down about 30 per cent and raise the pitch of his voice a few notes while lifting his chin slightly, to say the word, as if it was the first time he was using the word.
When he first used it to describe my solo on the song “Through the Wormhole” I knew that he was no longer just a funny man, but a nice one. He played on some Shadow Gallery experiments (his word) and also on a Pink Floyd tribute song, where he also lent his beautiful voice.
Somehow he asked me to appear on additional projects, or experiments (my word) he did. He had me do a “duelling” solo section on “Star One” with the greatest keyboard player ever, Jens Johanssen. I was so mad that Arjen would put me up against him, as I knew I would lose the contest even though I never view music that way. One of the greatest compliments I received was when Jens told me he considered it a “draw”. This is what Arjen does. He brings out the very best in everyone he works with. When you are sharing your talents alongside his, there is no alternative but to elevate your playing.
Arjen has an innate sense of composition. He knows how and when to alter a part or change the mood of a song. He understands when it is important to deviate from the norm and introduce a new variety of music. He can inject any style in any song and find a way to make it magic.
As much as I could go on about his obvious and numerous talents, I always light up when hearing his name because of the man he is. Having had the opportunity to have dinners with him in more than one country, I can’t even count the laughs and smiles I experienced in between telling him he had some food on his face… and shirt… and in his teeth. I would continue to laugh even when I got asked (by him) to be moved to a distant table elsewhere in the restaurant.
In the end, I always paid. Not the check. But the price of knowing that I was the inferior musician in the group. (There were other musicians there besides the two of us.) See? I am trying to be serious, but he has made me laugh so many times I can’t help but try to be funny.
He made me believe that the nicer a person you are, the better the musician you are because he has proven that point to me every time I am worthy enough to talk or interact with him. Arjen, you are the best of the best and I am so much better for knowing you. Long live your everlasting emotional songs and performances and I know someday you will be as funny as you think you are."
Gary “Gayreon” Wehrkamp